Bullies, Cyber Bullies and MORE

Bullies, Cyber Bullies

And a bad case of unwanted hormones

Sigh. Let's face it-bullies and cyber bullies will always roam the earth-you never know when you will meet one or whenever you will. (Except cyber bullies don't really roam the Earth-they roam on the computer.) Read this book and see how to handle it before it gets to you!

PART ONE

Bullies Are Like That

Bullies will roam the Earth-forever and ever and they can't be stopped. Do you think like this?

• "I don't care about bullies and mean kids-if I don't care, they will stop bullying other people."
  
• "I could leave them alone like nothing has happened!"
  

Saying this stuff to yourself is like saying, "Someone step on me! Step on me! Toddle all over me till I am dead!" Not noticing bullies will never help in a million years! Though, if you think about it, it will happen…

IN YOUR DREAMS!!!

Pluck up courage-don't be scared of bullies! Though, some people are very scared of bullies-not to mention it, very, very, very, very scared. But don't remark them, either. Bullies DO NOT have all the power. If you are the nice one, you do!

Question 1-

What do I do when I just found out my very best, best, best friend just told some other really mean bully my private and humiliating secret? Now that she has told, the bully is telling everyone at school my secret, and it's spreading around and now everyone is teasing me! I broke up with my big mouth friend but she and the bully keep teasing me! Help!

-Natasha (12)

Response:

Dear Natasha (12),

Your friend is a very big, big mouth! But, here is the thing-your very best friend obviously didn't know that it was a secret, right? Did you tell her it was a secret and she wasn't supposed to tell anyone? You should not feel guilty for breaking up with your friend. Remember, avoiding big mouths and bullies will never help a million years! Tell a trusted parent, teacher or counseller.

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Big mouths are not 'bullies' in another words-they are people who tell other people about your secrets or privacy stuff and it kind of goes around-like a rumor!

Remember, DON'T take it personally-use your wits but not too much! Bullies must never know how smart you are!!

OK, enough about this topic-let's move on to 'Cyber Bullying'. More about 'bullying' later.

Cyber Bullying

What is cyber bullying?

Cyber bullying is how kids or anyone communicate on the internet (via email etc.) Bad language and foal words, sexual drunk and violence etc. is confirmed as cyber bullying.

What do I do when bad email content comes up to me?
The best thing to do is stop-and tell your parents. No matter who is sending you the nasty emails (Even if it is your friend!!!), tell your parents!! Let them see the email and report it. There should be a report button on the top. Get a parent or counseller to guide you. If worried, maybe get you or your parents to print out the nasty email and let your school principal see it! (Even if it is one of your best friends! But I doubt that because friends don't send nasty emails or messages!) Some people just stay there, feeling stiff and hurt when a bad email comes up to them-DON'T!!! Don't just sit there-tell your parents or teacher! You'll make things worse when you DON'T tell-so tell! If you tell your friend or whoever is sending you the nasty and mean emails could stop-and don't back chat them or they will cyber bully you even more! Remember-Your parents, teachers or older brothers or sisters cannot see your email account because you have it locked up with a password-so, when cyber bully messages pop up, DO NOT delete them after you read them-call out your mom and dad to take care of it! If you have reported it or told your parents and teachers and that rude sender keeps sending more and more cyber bullying messages, BLOCK that person (REMEMBER, even if it YOUR FRIEND!!!)

OK, so, here are some examples:
To: jerry.lacey@mail.com

Hello Fungus-Face! Did you have a nice day? We bet not! LOL!!! Looks like you can get the crappin' @*&^ off your face!!!!! You are a total loner! Don't come near us, FUNGUS FACE!!! LOOLLLLLL! Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha!

Love-NOT, Brice

Here Brice Williams is cyber bullying to Jerry and how Jerry is replying to it and not taking action-it can still affect him because since he isn't taking action!
Jerry's reply and reaction:
Jerry (Thinks to himself): Oh no…I didn't very much like this email from Brice! I thought Brice was my best friend! How could he say that about me? He knows I am hurt-how could he?

Jerry does not call his mom or dad. He just sits on the computer chair, looking and feeling hurt by his friend Brice. One day later, Jerry gets super-cyber bullied!
See how this gets on your skin?
Here's Julie's story-

Hello Julie Smelly Pants! Ha ha!

You are very very stupid! You smell like rotten chesses and overdued JellO!!! Hope to see you in the toilets, wiping your butt cuz your face already stinks-it's probably a TRASH DUMP in your butt then!!! :D

This is Julie receiving a bad email from The Bully at school, Shebly. Here is how Julie reacts back:

Well, hello? Who is the smelly pants here? U r, u little weird rascal! I hate you!!!!!!

And to make a long story of cyber bullying short, Shebly's parents have told Julie's teachers about the situ. Soon, both girls got in trouble…so…

DON'T BACK CHAT TO THE CYBER BULLIES!!!!!!
that's all people!!!!
stay cool o el